Patience & Forgiveness > the Powerful Duo

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Patience (or forbearing ) is the state of

endurance under difficult circumstances,

which can mean persevering in the face of

delay or provocation without acting on

annoyance/anger in a negative way; or

exhibiting forbearance when under strain,

especially when faced with longer-term

difficulties. Patience is the level of

endurance one can take before negativity. It

is also used to refer to the character trait of

being steadfast. Antonyms include

hastiness and impetuousness .

6 Real ways to Move On!

Accept the fact that it’s normal or typical to have emotional reactions to the ending of a relationship . They’ve probably been there all along (in your marriage) and are simply intensified during and after the breakup process.

Acknowledge that all relationships end due to breakup or death. Just because your marriage is over, it doesn’t mean you’re inadequate, inferior or there’s something wrong with you. Give yourself a break.

Work on self-love . You are a worthwhile
person who doesn’t have to let the end of
your love relationship define your self-
worth. No person can complete you.
Accept that feeling rejected is an expected part of the ending of a marriage and it takes time to heal. Discover that relationships are our teachers.

Adopt a mindset of getting to know yourself better. Stay open to new experiences, hobbies, or interests that you couldn’t pursue with your partner.

Cultivate supportive relationships. Being
with people who accept and support you
can help ease feeling of rejection. Get
energized by the possibilities ahead for you.

In closing, looking at how feelings of
rejection may be impacting your behavior
can help you gain a healthier viewpoint. Are you neglecting your health, interests, family, or friends due to grieving the loss of your relationship? Consulting a counselor, support group, or divorce coach may help to facilitate healing. A person whose marriage ended due to their spouse making a decision to end the relationship must fight
against falling prey to a victim mentality
and take care of themselves. Lastly,
developing a mindset that you don’t have to be defined by your divorce experience can help you to heal and move forward with your life.

♥, Let's Move On~

Dear ♥,
You had lied to me many times and I
know your true identity already,I know your exact age, I know what you do, I know your whereabouts :'(
Why did you do this to me like why must it be me?? I am seek and tired of your love games </3. I kept on crying and crying thinking about you every single day...
Listen Man, I may HATE YOU but, i can't do that, no matter what happens if
you know that... ♥
Btw, thanks for sharing all the memories we've had. Let's move on!
Take care~

[End note : One request, don't make any promise which you can't able to keep!]

When Forever Died

It was never going to be easy having to look at you as a friend, yet wanting you to be so much more.
It’s as simple as opening a not so distant door and telling you I Love you but I can’t, I’m afraid because you don’t see me in that way.
The last thing I want is for our friendship to be dead. You’ve been there for me when I needed you most. As one painful chapter of my life ended, you gave me hope and you showed me reasons.
It’s difficult to be rational when emotions concerned. Why must Love be unconditional? So much for my prayers. I’m torn between the moon and the sun. I can’t Love you in the way I want.
I've seen it happen and it’s not pretty to watch the stars fall when forever died. I couldn’t even cry. All I did was sit out that night, hiding the fear to myself by looking out to a far off place.
It’s cruel but some say the gods play men. Deep in my heart, it’s me to be blame. Why did our friendship ended?