Mother's Day

Rabindra-Jayanti

Crush-O-Meter

a crush is an informal term for feelings of love ,

romance, or infatuation , often felt by young

people during their childhood and

adolescence. It is named for its

resemblance to the adoring, worshipful

affection that may be felt by a puppy . It

may also be able to describe short-term

love interest.

The term is often used in a derogatory

fashion, describing emotions which are

shallow and transient in comparison to

other forms of love such as romantic love. 

Crush is a very widespread experience

in the process of maturing. It may be

difficult to not have cases of "puppy love"

sometime during the maturing process. The object of attachment may be a peer ,

but the term can also be used to describe

the fondness of a child for an adult, for

example, students being attracted to their

teachers, their friends' parents, or children

to older celebrities: indeed, some consider

that in puppy love 'usually the object of

such infatuation is some highly idealised

person who is some years older—a teacher,

a friend of the family, an actor, or rock

star'—and typically the sufferer 'greatly

moved with emotion...spending much time

in daydreams and wishful fantasies

about them. 

Just as our bodies grow as we get older, so

do our feelings. They change and mature as

we become preteens, teenagers, and adults. A

crush is a word used to describe special

feelings you have for another person, a

classmate, or friend that you really like. Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in

life because you're beginning to understand

how it feels to like another person — a lot!

Sometimes, feelings for a crush can be

confusing because they're new to you and you

aren't sure how to act. You could have mixed

feelings. When you see your crush, a part of

you might feel embarrassed and you might

want to run away and hide. Another part of

you might imagine your crush noticing you

and sharing the same feelings.

Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love

adults feel toward one another. And in a way,

a crush can help us think about the kind of

person that we want to love when we grow

up. They help us understand which qualities

we notice and like in another person — and

maybe a few that we don't like. You can't choose your crushes. Sometimes

they sneak up on you and — wow — who was

that? Your crush might be a classmate, a

neighbor, your best friend's crush, an older

kid, a friend of your brother or sister, a sister

or brother of a friend, or a teacher at your

school.

Your crush could even be on someone you

don't know, like a professional athlete or a

celebrity. When the crush is on someone you

don't know, you might imagine what that

person is like. Maybe you think about what it

would be like to meet that person, even

though you know you probably never will. It's

still fun to imagine!

You might find 

yourself writing the name of your crush over

and over again in a notebook or telling a

good friend about that special person you like

so much. Crushes might last a few days,

weeks, months, or longer.

If you feel strange around your crush, you're

not alone. That's how most people feel

around their crushes. You might feel shy or

giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at

once! Some people can't remember what they

want to say when they see their crush. They

feel speechless, or tongue-tied.

Some kids might chase their crushes around

the playground, call them on the phone, or

tease them to get attention. This might make

a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever

felt this way? It can be hard to control how

you feel, but the rules of good behavior still

apply. If your crush doesn't want to talk with

you or it seems like you're making the person

uncomfortable, it's time to back off.

Likewise, never let anyone behave in a way

that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable.

It's never OK for anyone — a kid or a grown-

up — to do or ask things of you that don't feel

right. That's not a good crush.

Patience & Forgiveness > the Powerful Duo

. 

Patience (or forbearing ) is the state of

endurance under difficult circumstances,

which can mean persevering in the face of

delay or provocation without acting on

annoyance/anger in a negative way; or

exhibiting forbearance when under strain,

especially when faced with longer-term

difficulties. Patience is the level of

endurance one can take before negativity. It

is also used to refer to the character trait of

being steadfast. Antonyms include

hastiness and impetuousness .

6 Real ways to Move On!

Accept the fact that it’s normal or typical to have emotional reactions to the ending of a relationship . They’ve probably been there all along (in your marriage) and are simply intensified during and after the breakup process.

Acknowledge that all relationships end due to breakup or death. Just because your marriage is over, it doesn’t mean you’re inadequate, inferior or there’s something wrong with you. Give yourself a break.

Work on self-love . You are a worthwhile
person who doesn’t have to let the end of
your love relationship define your self-
worth. No person can complete you.
Accept that feeling rejected is an expected part of the ending of a marriage and it takes time to heal. Discover that relationships are our teachers.

Adopt a mindset of getting to know yourself better. Stay open to new experiences, hobbies, or interests that you couldn’t pursue with your partner.

Cultivate supportive relationships. Being
with people who accept and support you
can help ease feeling of rejection. Get
energized by the possibilities ahead for you.

In closing, looking at how feelings of
rejection may be impacting your behavior
can help you gain a healthier viewpoint. Are you neglecting your health, interests, family, or friends due to grieving the loss of your relationship? Consulting a counselor, support group, or divorce coach may help to facilitate healing. A person whose marriage ended due to their spouse making a decision to end the relationship must fight
against falling prey to a victim mentality
and take care of themselves. Lastly,
developing a mindset that you don’t have to be defined by your divorce experience can help you to heal and move forward with your life.

♥, Let's Move On~

Dear ♥,
You had lied to me many times and I
know your true identity already,I know your exact age, I know what you do, I know your whereabouts :'(
Why did you do this to me like why must it be me?? I am seek and tired of your love games </3. I kept on crying and crying thinking about you every single day...
Listen Man, I may HATE YOU but, i can't do that, no matter what happens if
you know that... ♥
Btw, thanks for sharing all the memories we've had. Let's move on!
Take care~

[End note : One request, don't make any promise which you can't able to keep!]

When Forever Died

It was never going to be easy having to look at you as a friend, yet wanting you to be so much more.
It’s as simple as opening a not so distant door and telling you I Love you but I can’t, I’m afraid because you don’t see me in that way.
The last thing I want is for our friendship to be dead. You’ve been there for me when I needed you most. As one painful chapter of my life ended, you gave me hope and you showed me reasons.
It’s difficult to be rational when emotions concerned. Why must Love be unconditional? So much for my prayers. I’m torn between the moon and the sun. I can’t Love you in the way I want.
I've seen it happen and it’s not pretty to watch the stars fall when forever died. I couldn’t even cry. All I did was sit out that night, hiding the fear to myself by looking out to a far off place.
It’s cruel but some say the gods play men. Deep in my heart, it’s me to be blame. Why did our friendship ended?